Your outgoing messages are scored across four dimensions — hostility, legal risk, emotional volatility, and child impact — before they leave your device. When a message crosses the line, it's held. Three calmer alternatives appear. You choose.
While you type, a lightweight tone bar shows where your message is trending. Not a final score — just a signal.
The full analysis runs in under 200ms. Four dimensions scored. One composite result: green, amber, red, or blocked.
Green sends immediately. Amber shows a warning with options. Red shows three rewrites. Blocked means you must choose one — no bypass.
Every message is evaluated against a strict rubric designed with family law professionals to protect your legal standing and reduce conflict.
Low conflict risk — Message sends immediately. Green confirmation. No interruption.
Moderate risk — Warning shown. You can send anyway, view three rewrites, or delay delivery by 1–4 hours.
High risk — Three rewrites shown. Sending original requires a two-tap confirmation and a legal warning note in your record.
Message blocked — You must use a rewrite. No bypass available.
When your message is held, the AI generates three alternatives. Each one preserves your factual content — the dates, the requests, the logistics — while removing emotional language and adding child-focused framing where it fits naturally. You choose one, edit it if you want, and send.
Our Incoming Shield blurs hostile messages before you read them. You'll see a filtered summary of the facts (e.g., "Requests schedule change for Friday") without the emotional attacks. You can choose to reveal the original message when you're ready.
Every message scored, every warning shown, every rewrite used or ignored — stored in an immutable audit log. Exportable directly to your attorney via our Court Reports feature.
The app told me my message had a high conflict risk and showed me three alternative versions. I used one of them. My co-parent responded calmly for the first time in six months.
No credit card. iOS and Android. 14-day trial on Standard and Pro.